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Best Valentine's Day gifts for men and women

Valentine's Day is upon us and if you're in a relationship, there's a certain expectation that attention must be paid. Your affection cannot, of course, be measured in dollars and cents. Then again, show up empty-handed and you'll undoubtedly find yourself in the doghouse. The struggle is real—have you been together long enough for jewelry? Not long enough? What we do know is that you don't have to go nuts on silly, frilly Cupid-themed crap. So step away from the oversized drugstore teddy bear, heart-shaped jewelry or boilerplate red roses. Think outside the box and pick up something the guy or girl in your life might actually like.


Valentine’s Day Gifts

Sleepy Jones Cotton Glen Plaid Robe

Cotton glen plaid robe,
$228 / $160 by Sleepy Jones

Timex + Todd Snyder Welton Bi-Metal Watch

Welton bi-metal watch,
$158 by Timex + Todd Snyder

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Valentine's Day gift ideas for her

Valentine's Day is a holiday where you want to give something from the heart. You can't put a price on that. But as any well-heeled gentlemen will tell you, it's also an occasion for extravagant tokens of affection. Why not use this opportunity to spoil and delight the person with whom you're sharing your life? We checked in with MR PORTER and NET-A-PORTER for a few perfect presents. Plus, every item comes with their now-signature promise of top notch service (including free shipping and exchanges), along with luxurious packaging.

Gifts for Her

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Gifts for Her

Gifts for Him

Valentine's Day gift ideas for her

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Saint Laurent Monogrammed Quilted Leather Pouch

Monogramme quilted leather pouch, $495 by Saint Laurent

Slip Silk Beauty Travel Set

Silk beauty sleep travel set, $119 by Slip

Fornasetti Regalo Gold-Scented Candle

Regalo gold-scented candle, $400 by Fornasetti

Gift Ideas for Him ...

Gift Ideas
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Tom Dixon Tank Whiskey Set

Tank whiskey set, $295 by Tom Dixon

Derek Rose Modal Loungewear Set

Modal loungewear set, $460 by Derek Rose

Tom Ford Leather Messenger Bag

Leather messenger bag, $1,950 by Tom Ford

Kings County Distillery Bourbon Tasting Gift Set

Bourbon tasting gift set,
$81.99 by Kings County Distillery

Julia Szendrei Champagne Rough Diamond Necklace

Champagne rough diamond necklace,
$58 by Julia Szendrei

The Sill Preserved Living Wall

Preserved “living wall,”
$215 by The Sill

SOMA Brew Bottle

Brew bottle,
$29.99 by SOMA

Jacquemus Mini Textured Leather Pouch

Mini textured leather pouch,
$255 by Jacquemus

Everlane Cashmere Rib Beanie

Cashmere rib beanie,
$65 by Everlane

Diptyque Eau Capitale Parisian Perfume

Eau Capitale Parisian perfume,
$180 by Diptyque

Polaroid OneStep 2 Instant Camera

OneStep 2 instant camera,
$99.99 / $74.99 by Polaroid

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City of Saints Ethiopia Duromina Cooperative


& delicate

Ethiopia Duromina Cooperative,
$22.10 by City of Saints

Passion House LSD Blend


& smooth

LSD Blend,
$20 by Passion House

Huckleberry Blue Orchid Blend


& smooth

Blue Orchid Blend,
$18.85 by Huckleberry

Equator Guatemala El Injerto


& fruity

Guatemala El Injerto Natural,
$24.75 by Equator

Passenger Agaro


& delicate

$19.20 by Passenger

Necessary Ethiopia


& fruity

$14.75 by Necessary

The Motley Burning Love Candle

Profits go toward LGBTQ+ equality

“Burning Love” candle,
$48 by The Motley

Ten Speed Press Couple's Cookbook

“The Couple's Cookbook,”
$17.99 by Ten Speed Press

Neato Laser-Guided Robot Vacuum

Not romantic, but this Alexa-enabled cleaner eliminates arguments about who should clean

Laser-guided robot vacuum,
$529.99 / $322.59 by Neato

To Whom It May CBD-Infused Chocolates

CBD-infused chocolates,
$30 by To Whom It May

Olympia Provisions Salami Bouquet

Salami bouquet,
$50 by Olympia Provisions

Coyuchi Cloud Loom Robe

Cloud loom robe,
$148 / $119.98 by Coyuchi

Miansai Solar Signet Ring

Solar signet ring,
$165 by Miansai

Necessaire Clean Sex Gel

Clean sex gel,
$20 by Nécessaire

Valentine's Day chocolate


Valentine's Day is a major source of spending in the US, with total expenditures in 2019 topping $20.7 billion, or over $162 per person. This is an increase from $108 per person in 2010.

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