Because you never get a second chance to make a good first impression at home
Interior designer Brian Paquette understands that a home speaks volumes about the man who resides there.
You’ve put in the work honing your wardrobe, perfecting the right haircut, and figuring out which cologne gets the most compliments. But what happens when someone walks into your home? The truth is, the moment a guest—especially a date—steps inside, they're subconsciously scanning the place. Not in a judgmental, white-glove way, but in a “what does this space tell me about him?” kind of way. And whether you know it or not, your place is constantly giving off clues.
The good news? You don't need to totally redecorate like an HGTV show or blow thousands on custom furniture. What makes the biggest impact are often the simplest, most overlooked details—things you can fix in a single day. These subtle touches say more about you than any Tinder bio ever could. Here's what your date is really noticing when they come over, what it says about you, and how to level up—fast.
What They Notice: This is likely an instant reaction. Is it pleasant and inviting or... not?
What It Says: Cleanliness and attention to atmosphere.
Upgrade: Layer scents—maybe a diffuser near the entryway and a candle (on the coffee table or in the kitchen) for consistency.
Feu de Bois candle, $76 by Diptyque
Arroyo Oak diffuser,
$33 by P.F. Candle Co.
What They Notice: Towels that are stiff and mismatched, soap scum, cheap toilet paper.
What It Says: Hygiene, self-care, and basic respect for guests.
Upgrade: Keep it fresh—fluffy white towels, a quality hand soap, and an uncluttered, clean sink (free of shaving clippings).
Super plush towels, $99 / $72.80 by Brooklinen
Invigorate hand wash,
$30 by Grown Alchemist
What They Notice: Wrinkled sheets, lumpy stained pillows, or the same bedding you had in college.
What It Says: Emotional maturity—or lack thereof.
Upgrade: Crisp percale sheets, fresh pillow inserts, and a real bed frame.
Adjustable memory foam pillow, $99 by Coop Home
Percale sheet set,
from $259 by Parachute
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What They Notice: Empty walls, dorm-room posters, or small, cheap frames.
What It Says: Taste, personality and pride in your space.
Upgrade: Choose one large piece that you really love, frame it well and let it breathe.
Custom Giclée art print, from $15.20 by Artifact Uprising
“Orange Red”,
$190 / $142.50 by Jared Hankins
What They Notice: Do you have accent pillows or a blanket? Or is it just pet hair and stains?
What It Says: Comfort, cleanliness, and whether you host well.
Upgrade: A couple of well-made pillows and a handsome blanket look and feel way more inviting.
Silk cashmere throw blanket, $249 / $149.90 by Quince
High-Contrast throw pillow set,
$252.50 by CB2
What They Notice: The titles you own, how they're arranged, and if you've read them.
What It Says: Your curiosity and depth.
Upgrade: Display books that reflect your interests—on a shelf, in stacks on your coffee table. On your nightstand, just keep them neat and tidy.
Hemingway box set, $35.99 by Scribner
Cast glass bookends,
$89 by West Elm
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