31 Days
Day 20

How to Deal
With a Bad Haircut

Volume 10

The point of a haircut is to trim and reset whatever's happening atop your head. Unfortunately, not every trip to the barber ends with refreshing results. Sometimes, you end up with a bad haircut and, instead of grinning at your barber and telling them through gritted teeth that everything "looks good," do something about it: only you can prevent this problem. To understand how to cope with this problem—both in and out of the barber chair—Valet. spoke with Jonathan Castellanos, co-owner of Gloss-O Barber Shop in Los Angeles, to figure out how to deal with a bad haircut.

Speak Up

The problem of a bad haircut falls on both you and your barber (but mostly on you). "Thorough communication is key for positive results," Castellanos says. "During the consultation, if you're not sure that your barber understands you, feel free to stop the service. Don't be afraid to speak up." Castellanos stresses being a gentleman (Don't be a dick about a problem!) and, if things are going completely wrong, ask to speak with the shop manager to work toward a positive solution.

Hair Tools Help

If you leave the barbershop or salon satisfied with your haircut only to find that it ultimately was a bad look, all is not lost. "Styling products can help conceal a bad haircut," Castellanos notes, recommending that clay pomade or forming paste can "shake up uneven lengths into an effortlessly cool, roughed up look." Also, avoid water or wax based pomades as they will "lock down hair that was left a little too long." Another solution can be found by figuring out how to dry your hair better too. "Don't be too shy to ask your barber for a blow dry tutorial," Castellanos says. "Controlling the way your hair dries will smooth out your hair and provide a polished look."

You Can Always
Get a New Haircut

"A master barber can identify a bad haircut and/or shape," Castellanos says before suggesting that you must tell them what happened and "point out aspects of the haircut that were not satisfactory" so they know what went wrong. Bring visual aids too: "As painful as it might be, take pictures of the bad haircut to share with your new barber. This will accurately highlight what went wrong and provide insight into how it can be improved." If you're wondering about shaving your head, put the clippers down and seek help. "Sometimes the best remedy is hitting the restart button," Castellanos says. "But in the same regard, shaving your head should be the last resort. Before taking matters into your own hands, ask a barber or stylist for professional advice."

But Sometimes You Need a New Barber

The trauma of a bad haircut can put a wedge between you and your haircutter, inspiring a search for someone new. This is entirely understandable, in Castellanos' opinion. It's a daunting task, but can be solved via technology. "Yelp and Instagram are useful tools when searching for new barber shops and hairstyles," Castellanos says. "Search for pictures of hairstyles that spark your interest but make sure to manage your expectations." Another reason bad haircuts happen is because we're not entirely honest with whoever is doing our hair, specifically in how much time is dedicated to styling, how often hair is washed, and how hair is typically worn. Castellanos believes these are integral first meeting details: "Introduce yourself to your new barber with these concerns and establish a personal relationship that's tailored around bringing out the best in you. Once you have realized you are in good hands, sit back, relax and enjoy the grooming ritual."

You're Not Alone

You might not fear a bad haircut until it lands on your head but, when that time comes, know that you're in well trodden territory. "Bad haircuts do happen," Castellanos says. "Hairstyles are not subjective, within every hair texture and facial structure resides the perfect cut that will complement your face shape and overall style." Castellanos says you should always leave a barber shop feeling handsome and confident—and that a good haircut should "keep you feeling sharp" for up to three weeks.

Volume 10   //   2018

31 Days is back ... And 2018 marks its tenth iteration. When we started this a decade ago, we never imagined that these daily guides to being better men would take off and become one of Valet.'s most popular series of all time. So thank you for your continued support and belief in our mission. This year, we're focusing on productivity—ways in which you can streamline and improve your days to make your job less stressful, your work more efficient and your life run just a bit more smoothly. It's time to raise your game.

  • 1
    Get a Jump Start
    on Your Day
  • 2
    Slow Day?
  • 3
    The Power of
    Saying "No"
  • 4
    Faster Haircut =
    Better Haircut
  • 5
    Casey Neistat on
  • 6
    Your Sneakers
  • 7
    Save Money
  • 8
  • 9
    Stay in
  • 10
    The "Good Day"
  • 11
    Get Bumped ...
    for Good
  • 12
    Tim Ferriss on
    Doing It All
  • 13
    Style Hacks
  • 14
    Get a
  • 15
    Shit Done
  • 16
    A Successful
  • 17
    Your Focus
  • 18
    Your Grooming
  • 19
    Jeff Bezos on
    Making Decisions
  • 20
    Fixing a
    Bad Haircut
  • 21
    Learn a
    New Hobby
  • 22
    Dress for
  • 23
    Success at
    Any Age
  • 24
  • 25
    Get Out of
    a Meeting
  • 26
    Jay-Z on the
    Keys to Success
  • 27
    Bad Breath
  • 28
    Master Your
    Credit Cards
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    The First
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